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A Houseful of Flowers
Barbara A. Glanz
This story has become a legend in my family. When my mother, Lucille Anderson, graduated from college, she was given a prized teaching position as the art teacher in Storm Lake, Iowa. As many of you may know, in small towns at the end of the summer they print all the pictures of the new teachers in the local paper, welcoming them to the community.
My father, Wayne Bauerle, was a successful, single young man working for Standard Oil in Storm Lake at the time. My father was a quiet man, but a very determined one, and when he did speak, you listened! He saw my mother’s picture in the paper that August and decided then and there that he was going to marry her, so he devised a romantic strategy.
My mother was rooming with a widow lady at the time, so my father discovered her address, and every day for the next two weeks, he sent her a bouquet of flowers. Remember that at this point she had never even met him! Finally, her landlady called him and told him that if he sent any more flowers, he’d have to give her more vases. Mother said the house looked like a funeral parlor!
However, my Dad was pretty shrewd, I think, because he waited all that time to call to ask her for a date. How could anyone possibly turn him down after all those flowers?
The end of the story is that they were married, had four children, and were disgustingly romantic (or so we thought as teenagers!) until my father died. And my romantic father made sure that my mother had fresh flowers in our home every week of their marriage!
I often think how glad I am for all those first flowers—I might not have been here without them!THOUGHT TO PONDER: How long has it been since you sent someone you loved flowers?
BARBARA GLANZ BIO
For free articles you can use in your company newsletters and an archive of dozens of immediately applicable "Ideas of the Month," go to www.barbaraglanz.com. Barbara Glanz, CSP, works with organizations that want to improve morale, retention, and service and with people who want to rediscover the joy in their work and in their lives. She is the author of CARE Packages for Your Customers: An Idea a Week for Customer Service (McGraw-Hill 2007), The Simple Truths of Appreciation: How Each of Us Can Choose to Make a Difference (Simple Truths 2007), What Can I Do? Ideas to Help Those Who Have Experienced Loss (Augsburg Fortress 2007), The Simple Truths of Service -- Inspired by Johnny the Bagger by Ken Blanchard and Barbara Glanz. (Simple Truths 2005) , Balancing Acts -- More than 250 Guiltfree, Creative Ideas to Blend your Work and your Life (Dearborn 2003), Handle with CARE -- Motivating and Retaining Employees (McGraw-Hill 2002), CARE Packages for the Workplace -- Dozens of Little Things You Can Do to Regenerate Spirit at Work (McGraw-Hill 1996), The Creative Communicator (McGraw-Hill 1998), CARE Packages for the Home (Andrews McMeel 1998), and Building Customer Loyalty (McGraw-Hill 1994). As an internationally known speaker, trainer, and business consultant who has a Master's degree in Adult Education, Barbara lives and breathes her personal motto: "Spreading Contagious EnthusiasmTM." She has presented on all seven continents and in all 50 states since 1995. For more information, she can be reached directly at 941-312-9169; Fax 941-349-8209; email: bglanz@barbaraglanz.com; website: www.barbaraglanz.com.
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